Sunday, December 14, 2008

BONDS

We start cherishing a bond the day we are born in this world. The bonds of blood are the first ones we share.
But those are gifted to us. As our journey continues, we start earning some of these; in the form of friends, followers, students, teachers and loved ones.
But not all bonds share the same strength. We always find a person who acknowledges us...acknowledges our being....acknowledges our presence.
That's when friends bond. Sharing, caring, loving, all these attributes follow further strengthening the bond.
But the first thread is tied when you start acknowledging the other person. A person can go far enough to nurture this thread.
People who share such bonds are admired by the world around them.

I am lucky enough to have a few of these in my life. I hope each one of you has one such to cherish.

3 comments:

Princess said...

I guess the most important foundations in any relationship (BOND as explained here) is
you need to be a good listener.

chinmai said...

@princess: may not be so all the time...i think bonding also happens when your feelings for others are reciprocated..( endorsing the point mentioned by hitesh ofacknowledging)
bond also happens when u find the other person stand by ur side when you needed him/her..blah blah... ;)
there can be ample ways of bonding :)

Hitesh said...

@both: so i got to know a few more ways to bond.
Well that's the first step..strengthening and longing it is another and that's the difficult part